Sometimes I wonder if men and women really suit each other. Perhaps they should live next door and just visit now and then. ~Katharine Hepburn

Monday, December 28, 2009

goooood lord

Well, the hiatus was no good. I tried. I stayed away, I turned down invites and propositions, I ignored texts and didn't return calls. Then a new one pounced on my lap- unannounced and uninvited. It pissed me off, really. A friend. A colleague. A business connection. A married man who insisted that being friends was appropriate until he planted a kiss on me in the hallway. Ugh. The result of this public display was not pretty. Not only did it cause me to spew out angry words- it catipulted me right back into the lion's den of dating. I didn't go on a hiatus to stay away from single men...that worked like a get rich quick, home business...great intentions, but bad results.

Oh well. I now have little desire to settle down. Finally. I think that is where I am supposed to be. I have a man in Detroit that I could love easily....go figure...he's in Detroit. I have an old fling here that continues to come around and I continue to weaken to his charm. And I have the fun, but no expectation football player who makes it okay for me to stay single. He'll come around...whoever he is. I'm not looking anymore. They find me easily enough and the man of my dreams will show his face one of these days. Until then...I'm going to enjoy living. The stories are too good. :)